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It may take her longer to finish, but if she can do it comfortably, the important thing is reaching that finish line.
She may need to get comfortable with an alternate route. What is important is that she sees that she is making progress even though it is not the path that she originally envisioned. I just found this website and there are a lot of really helpful articles. I am wondering what resources there are for a student who has withdrawn but now has trouble identifying what direction major, school she wants to Girl in Bridgeport ca.
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And your last comment about brain development may be truer than we think. Recent studies are confirming that brains develop later than many of us realize. I have a 20 year old who just wants to lift weights. But he has no goals even with lifting he just likes the clam feeling he states he gets after 2 hours of it and lifting more weight. Now he hates his job gets panic attacks and OCD over wildest things and he stays lifting fixes that and lots of beer helps to.
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He did play football but got a bad injury due to lifting and over working himself when he knew playing in college was over I feel he just gave up on inside. My son is 20 by way. I hope maybe his brain will just get there one day. Linda — Thanks for sharing your story.
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